My Wife Is Unfaithful And I Can No Longer Trust Her

It is believed that the man is the head of the family and the woman is supportive and as such the man should be the one to provide for the family (This means that, the man has much responsibility to play in the family right?). Things happen, wait until you hear the entire story *wink*.

Like they say, life is in circles and you never can tell what will happen in the next minute. A man and the wife happen to work in one of the new generational banks (i.e. not the same bank per se), one fateful day, the man came back home with a letter of termination of appointment, he was laid off without pay according to him. So for some time now the man has been without a job, let alone fending for the family and is not happy about it.

In a situation where the man is the one affected here, it means that the woman will have to share part of the responsibility to catering for the family pending when the man finds himself another Job or get back at his feet again since she is the only one working at the moment.

This will have to continue for as long as '''hmmmm'''. The question here is this, is it really right for the woman (wife) to ride on the man (Husband), toss him around, or use him as a home dresser, houseboy or errand boy and even to the point of calling him names? The man in question has decided to be doing a menial job to assist the family in some areas instead of been idle to at least remove some level of shame.

Although the salary of the man is nothing compare to that of the wife (i.e. she earns more than him).

The woman no longer have respect for the man because much of the responsibility of taking care of the family is more on her, moreover she now earns more than the man. She even does things at her own volition without the consent of the husband; she can travel for 2weeks with bordering on the well being of the faimily, comes back home late everyday from work. If you were the man in this case what would you do?

The same man has opted to leave his family to an unknown destination, all in the name of i can no longer contain the situation.

Please be objective when answering this man needs your honest advice.